Posted on 1:44 AM

Amitoufo

why on earth do such people exist? Is this kind of behaviour indicating deprived of love? desperate? self pity or a sheer act of innocence? scratch head* no one knows except that oneself with an evil thought crawling creepily inside the heart. poor chap please wake up and you may want to start praying for becoming true to yourself.

Basically this way of presenting yourself to the public is characterised by the belief that you're the victim of events and is therefore deserving of condolence. Perhaps you may have forgotten that this is regard as a negative emotion and ain't healthy. In fact self pity is perfectly normal so long as it is transitory and leads to either acceptance or a determination to change the situation.

Sad to admit, neither transition nor positive thoughts have pull yourself through. You're back to square one and inevitably landed in a darkest square of yours ; meaning no peace of mind. Though it's remarkably self sustaining, depression in conjunction with other unstable mood conditions may arise. To be truthful, how you shine and whine, no one bothers as much as yourself...


Amitoufo shan zai shan zai...

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Posted on 12:29 AM

An overspender's story

article from CNN

Fentress, 29, has thought seriously about pursuing a doctorate, but her academic and life goals are on hold. She first has to pay off an $85,000 debt.

Her financial troubles stem from a combination of emotional spending, a lack of financial savvy and bad luck.

Shortly after she earned her master's degree, Fentress had medical problems that required a scan of her stomach. Her insurance didn't cover the $5,000 procedure, which she charged to her credit card.

She was working as a freelancer so taxes weren't deducted from her paychecks. When tax season arrived, she put another few thousand dollars on her card.

Her problems worsened when depression became involved.
While juggling graduate school with three jobs, sleep took a backseat to writing her thesis. Fentress also became unhappy with her job and her life's direction, so she tried to fill "the void" with possessions.

"I had worked so hard and felt like I had so little to show for it and I just went a little crazy," she said.

A four-year binge added up to about 300 pairs of shoes, two trips to Europe, several pairs of designer jeans, spending $600 at an auction and lots of jewelry.

Fentress is one of millions of Americans with an addiction to shopping, said Olivia Mellan, a psychotherapist and author of "Overcoming Overspending: A Winning Plan for Spenders and Their Partners."

"Shopping like this is a compulsion ... It's not like people say, 'Do I have the money for this? What are my other goals?' They just want something and they go get it," Mellan said.'

Fentress had been issued about 15 credit cards. Her strategy had been to open new accounts to transfer growing balances.While Fentress' debt is above average, about half of America carries some credit card debt.

The average credit card balance for Americans was $5,100 in 2004, according to a Federal Reserve Board report. Slightly more than 46 percent of families carried a balance that year.


erms don't you think it only applies to women...

its simply a case of robbing peter to pay paul !!!

be cautious with your spending, WOMEN!

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Posted on 8:13 PM

To the readers:

the feeling of G.R.E.A.T

have no time to blog recently, there are too many datelines to meet... panting for breath. still giving a second thought on buying the tickets for the musical- phantom of opera?? should I? i think its gotta be a fabulous musical concert. the upcoming performance bonus is just days ahead. haa suddenly feel rich yea~ anyway back to the topic. sistic's homepage is seriously flooded with surfing fellows, aiyo need to upgrade the server. been logging for the past ten minutes and still nothing appear on the screen. try again later....


the past one year was a survival test to me, at last i made it to be a good team player of the group. the hard work pays off really... thank god! being promoted within a year isn't easy and i was glad that i have a good boss who harbours thoughts for us - the members. with such a promising reward brought me supreme motivation and though the evening course is turning me into an owl, i am sure that my work committment is never going to be affected. of course not only to my xiao lao ban who is helping me lots, there are other members who have also helped me along the way to success...

hiak hiak, lastly i wanna be thankful to chou thaddeus who has given me spiritual support and mutual love.



Many thanks and cheerios!

From ah jing...

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Posted on 10:31 PM

-stumped silly-

can give it a try to watch to distress... grr!



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Posted on 11:24 PM

Powerful Indonesia quake kills 82


Singapore is just 430km away from shaky sumatra


when a tremor occurs






TAKE COVER







KEEP AWAY FROM BUILDINGS



STOP VEHICLE AND REMAIN INSIDE

OTHERWISE...



TRAPPED IN DEBRIS

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Posted on 12:38 AM

For the first time, hpp lesson isn't so dull. perhaps i have missed this stretch of topics that has been covered months ago. it's an intensive go through. so scary the more i study the tougher it gets.

today's topics covered angina pectoris, cardiac failure, heart attack and infarction. if u skimp through the book you probably think that they are all the same. haa haa haa i;m wrong too... they are so different, with varying treatments and outcomes.

when we touched on the chapter on blood pressure, blood volume, starling curves... i was having a thought for someone...poor girl she had to struggle with the pain in her chest and now the abdominal pain. no certain diagnosis and what were given to treat are those junk pain killers. sincerely pray that she will get well soon...

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Posted on 3:14 AM

Hurry get the latest 2007 microsoft....


so cool





word doc.

excel workbook


powerpoint.ppt



P.S. many thanks to the person that has reached anomie stage, mucks!















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Posted on 1:03 AM

For the month of March




the drooling 10 million TOTO

After the results were out, huiting was on my mind.

"so did u win?"

the reply was: " no la, this year toto no.s are hard to predict, anyway got 2 winners."

hey its only 2 winners? wow the super duper lucky uncle or aunty can rest their legs on bed for the rest of their life. 10 million shared between two individuals!!!

this year the prosperous betting outlet isn't the usual ones at 7-Eleven store in Yishun Chong Pang or the one at hougang... the feng shui has moved to ang mo kio ave 10 and geylang.

If i were the 5 million winner, haa~

First and foremost, i would get myself a gift i have longed for...(perhaps a bag from longchamps, mui mui... )

2 million goes to my parents,

1 million to my dear,

1 million to investments in China's property

the rest will be my savings,

this is only what if...

ok it's time to revert myself back to reality, read my notes!

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